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You and your partner love each other. That was never really the question. But somewhere in the day-to-day, you've drifted and you're not sure how to get back to feeling truly seen by each other. You’re struggling to understand one another, feel as close or intimate as you once did, and work through challenges without ending up feeling like you’re on different sides.

If ADHD is part of your story or you’ve wondered if it may be, some of this might feel familiar: one of you carries most of the mental load while the other feels like they're always a step behind. You find yourselves having the same conflicts about the same issues despite both wanting change. Despite best efforts, it's hard to convey your experiences and feelings in a way that ends with you feeling fully seen. None of this means something is wrong with you or your relationship, it usually means the tools you're both using weren't built for how your particular minds work.

I'm Allia Brickman, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist, and Adult ADHD Specialist. My approach is compassionate, direct, and collaborative. Using the Gottman Method, I support couples working through a wide range of relationship issues, with a specialization in couples navigating ADHD in one or both partners.

Together, we'll work on deepening your understanding of one other, increasing closeness and intimacy, and tools that make you feel like a true team again.

Please feel free to reach out via phone or email for a free consultation.