Gottman Referral Network

About

Couples therapy for the cycles, the distance, and whatever your relationship needs next.

What can change for the two of you:
- Stop having the same argument. Most fights aren't really about the dishes. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), we find the cycle underneath and slow it down.

- Communicate in a new way. Gottman Method tools give you specific ways to talk, listen and repair at home.

- Feel close again. We work on the distance too, not just the conflict.

- You'll both feel safe here. I hold space for each of you equally, so neither of you has to fight to be heard.

Does any of this sound familiar?

The same argument. Emotional distance. Talking that doesn't land. Feeling unheard or unseen. Reactivity. Repair after something has gone wrong. Intimacy and physical connection. A shared life change. Growing apart. Separation and uncoupling. Or simply wanting to invest in something that's already good.

This works when you both still want to talk. That includes couples who want to repair, and couples who want a less damaging separation. It's also fine if one of you is unsure about therapy. 2SLGBTQIA+, intercultural and interfaith couples, married or not, are all welcome.

I’ve completed Level 1 and Level 2 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.

Sessions are online across BC, with evening and Sunday times. They run 75 minutes ($187.50) or 90 minutes ($225), with receipts for extended health.

The first call is a free 30 to 40 minute video conversation. No cost, no commitment. Just a chance to see if this feels right for you both.

Special populations

2SLGBTQIA+ couples, intercultural and interfaith couples, married or unmarried partners, polyamory