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Some couples who begin work with me know what the trouble is but it keeps coming up again and again. Others don’t understand why their relationship has become so hard.
I Help Couples Heal From Issues Such As:
Blaming, and keeping score of wrongs.
Criticism as the norm in your relationship.
Lack of emotional support, leaving you alone when you are needing connection.
Fights resulting from a lack of clarity around money and finances.
Assuming your partner has lost the ability to care for you or grow.
Lack of intimacy or sex leaves you both feeling unloved.
Avoiding talking about the real problems.
Even if you are scared your relationship is beyond saving, or that one or both of you don’t have the emotional capability, couples counseling can get strategies to repair and reconnect.
Let me share how therapy with me will go.
We’ll work on problem-solving instead of just having a bitch-fest around what happened in the past, who said what, and whose fault it is.
We’ll ask questions that actually get you somewhere, like, “How can we stop hurting each other and enjoy our relationship?”
We’ll use sessions to actually prepare for future conflict — so that you both have the tools to manage conflict and quickly find resolution.
Together, we will find new ways of bringing back passion, connection, and romance, while integrating strategies for de-escalating conflict. We will also explore your love languages so you can take the guesswork out of reading your partner’s mind. What would it feel like if you weren’t on opposite sides? And instead, teamed up as doubles partners, supporting and lifting one another up?
As you and your partner begin to repair triggering fault lines more effectively, I will help the two of you co-create a stronger foundation for more fulfilling love and intimacy. We will create a playbook for navigating conflict and developing better loving strategies, all in service of the two of you as a team.
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