Gottman Referral Network

About

You've made it here, which means you've already done the work most couples skip. You know the difference between talking about your relationship and actually changing it. What you're looking for now is someone who can meet you at that level.
Level 3 is advanced clinical training in the Gottman Method — full assessment process, specific intervention sequences, the ability to track what's happening between two people in real time and respond to it with precision. I bring that alongside 15 years at NYU studying how people actually communicate — what they mean versus what they say, how arguments escalate through language, why some words land as attacks when they were never intended that way.
Sessions are active and directed — you'll leave with a clearer picture of what's driving the pattern and something specific to do before you come back. Couples I work with typically see fewer ruptures, faster recovery when they do happen, and a real shift in how much distance the relationship can tolerate before it feels unsafe.
I work with all kinds of couples — heterosexual and same-sex, married and unmarried, premarital and long-married. Affair recovery is a significant part of my practice. I also see individuals navigating anxiety, burnout, and relationship stress. Everything online, across 20 licensed states.

Special populations

Premarital, empty nesters, affair recovery, LGBTQ+, high-stress professionals, blended families.