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Couples who begin work with me are often arguing over trivial matters, wondering why gridlock is happening now as it never used to. Or the same issues keep coming up, leaving you both feeling drained and frustrated. Despite your best efforts, you feel stuck. And let’s be real, re-litigating conflict is vastly overrated, and often leads to more conflict.

Imagine having a playbook for navigating the tough times and another for having more fun. How different would life feel?

I help couples heal from issues such as:

- Constantly blaming, criticizing, and keeping score
- Feeling unseen, unheard, unappreciated, and not understood
- Going from 0-to-60 (or 90) like wildfire
- Lack of intimacy, touch, and sex
- Harshness & contempt
- Struggles with alcohol or pornography
- Overcoming betrayal
- Premarital couples working on communication and alignment
- Dealing with empty nest, retirement, or life together as you age

Even if you are scared your relationship is beyond saving, couples counseling can give you strategies to repair and reconnect.

Let me share how therapy with me will go.

We’ll work on developing actual skills instead of just having a bitch-fest around what happened in the past, who said what, and whose fault it is.

We’ll use sessions to figure out how to handle future fights better. You’ll learn ways to make repairs and actually fix problems, so you can move forward together and feel close again.

Together, we will find new ways of bringing back passion, connection, and romance. We will also explore your love languages so you can take the guesswork out of reading your partner’s mind. Imagine walking hand in hand again, being partners on an exciting journey together, enjoying each other’s company and co-creating the life you dream of.

Let's arrange a consultation today. Secure and schedule your free 15-minute session on my website, and I'll promptly respond. Get started on danielmenely.com now.

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