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You might ask, “Why do we both keep doing this? we start out with good intentions, but somehow our relationship keeps sinking. It's all wrong, we’re stale, stuck in a quagmire of blame and frustration and even worse. Sometimes, I just don't care. Why even bother? I try, but we keep missing the mark. I am so tired of feeling lonely and miserable."
Not anymore. As your counselor, I will be with you in this most virtuous pursuit of truly loving one and another as you craft a joyful life, together. I will honor your history and wisdom as a couple (you both have much to offer) as we gather insight into who you really are, what you really want and why, and what you hope to gain in your relationship. Together, we will learn healthy and affirming ways to express needs and wants. To build a love house, on a solid foundation of trust and safety with each other. Your dreams uncovered and rebuilt using proven methods that work, and healthy communication strategies to foster love and belonging. How satisfying!
CALL NOW for a free 20-minute consultation to see how. (949) 933-1242.
We can work together, crafting and designing what you hope to become. I will provide nuts and bolts treatment plans and assessments with discernment and advocacy for your relationship. Together, with a spirit of experimentation and curiosity, we will begin to really get to know the other. We will explore and observe as you begin to take action; try things out, be curious, share feedback and build confidence in your love and commitment to one and other.
I am your greatest fan, and I can’t wait to cheer you on and guide you.
Action begets action as you experiment with mindset, become aware of your metacognitions-thinking about your thoughts-and feelings beneath your feelings with me by your side. I have been married many, many years, through the ups and downs of family life which is always changing. And that's ok.

I can contain all you bring. So, bring it on, both of you.