Gottman Referral Network

About

When the same fight happens over and over, it can mean a deep hurt or unspoken fear is not being heard. Conversations can feel strained, and couples can feel more like roommates or co-managers than emotionally connected partners--like life has slowly overtaken the relationship.

I work with couples navigating the impact of caregiving demands, trauma histories, parenting stress, reproductive transitions, or major life changes that leave little space for the relationship itself.

I provide a safe space for couples to de-escalate the tension, better understand their patterns, and reestablish secure connection.

I use the Gottman Method alongside trauma-informed and attachment-based approaches to support both insight and change, helping partners move from automatic reactions into more intentional and connected ways of relating.

Some couples come in during a period of strain or transition, while others arrive after years of slowly drifting apart. In both cases, the goal is not to "fix" someone or "pick a side," but support your reconnection, repair, and ability to feel like a team again.

I offer couples intensives for those who want focused, extended work and meaningful momentum in a shorter timeframe, as well as workshops for couples looking for structured support. Select weekend and evening hours available.

Special Populations: perinatal mental health, perimenopause, ADHD, body image, and couples with a partner impacted by a trauma history,

Special populations

Specialties include trauma, perinatal loss, caregiving stress, and midlife relationship transitions.