Provides online therapy
All my sessions with couples are video based, using a secure video connection. I work with couples throughout California.
Many people are still working from home. This means that many couples are together more hours of every day. Or, stress has put a spotlight on the frustrations with your relationship with your partner. What better time to learn fresh skills for calmer conversations?
We all have a deep longing for connection. We long to be known...and fully accepted as we are. But then, we realize that we are stuck. We tell ourselves that we have "tried everything." But things just get worse with our stumbling efforts.
This is not the time to guess at how to fix your relationship. You need couples therapy that is research-based because motivation is slipping away with every tedious interaction.
You also need a doctor who has the common sense, compassion, experience, and wisdom to point the way with a tailored strategy.
I am a careful listener with an interactive, conversational style. Remember that close feeling? I can help you get it back again if you have grown apart.
Is your relationship a major source of stress right now? I will show you how to calm yourselves so that you can truly listen--and speak so that you are truly heard.
Remember when arguments weren't so frequent? I will show you how to argue constructively so that your angry conflicts become fewer and far between. You can even rediscover how to enjoy each other.
I work hard to be even-handed in my approach to every couple. I want you and your partner to feel equally understood ... including your strengths--the very ones you cannot see when you're gridlocked.
Contact me. I offer a free consultation on the phone. You will see that I have the experience and the wisdom to tailor the research-based steps and tools for your unique situation. If you are ready to start taking small practical steps to improve your marriage, then contact me.
Couples working from home, couples in rural areas, couples with unique challenges