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About

You built something together. But lately it feels like you're speaking different languages.

Maybe one of you approaches problems with logic and data while the other leads with feeling and intuition. Maybe the long hours, the demanding projects, the creative blocks, or the pressure to perform have quietly pushed you apart. You're not sure when it happened. You just know something has to change.

This is exactly the work I do.

I specialize in working with couples in tech, science, research, and the arts, and I have a particular gift for couples where those worlds collide. The engineer and the painter. The researcher and the musician. The developer and the designer. These relationships have a unique dynamic, and they deserve a therapist who understands that dynamic rather than treating it as a quirk to work around.

Here's what you can expect from working with me: I'm an active therapist. I ask questions, identify patterns, and help you get to the root of what's really going on, not just what's happening on the surface. Past clients have described me as gentle, caring, nurturing, and unshockable. I hold space for your thoughts and emotions while also creating an environment of safety and encouragement, one where you and your partner feel ready to take risks, try new approaches, and move through old patterns together.

I'm a therapist with a plan.

In our first session, the three of us will meet to discuss the relationship and its big-picture needs. The next two sessions are individual, a dedicated time for each of you to speak with me one-on-one. From there, we build a clear, personalized plan together to move you toward the relationship you actually want.

Email today to schedule a free 20-minute phone consultation.

Special populations

Tech, artists, scientist and researchers