Gottman Referral Network

About

I am a Couple's Therapist specializing in couples with addiction and codependency issues. I work with those who prioritize the needs and desires of another person, often someone struggling with substance abuse. I support those who feel an irresistible urge to "fix" another's problems, but sacrifice their own well-being in the process.

I grew up in the Midwest, where alcohol addiction was normalized. People in my family were unaware of the ways we tiptoed around the alcoholics in our lives. I grew up believing I was responsible for those who were not.

​I married into the military and, in time, learned that, as in the Midwest, alcohol abuse was common. Alcohol was often used as a way to cope with the stresses of overwork and the aftermath of war. I spoke with many who kept secrets about addiction.

After raising four children, I attended graduate school with the goal of helping others who, like me, have been affected by another’s addiction. I earned a Master’s degree in Psychology with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from Pepperdine University, and I hold an undergraduate degree in Biochemistry from the University of Wisconsin. I completed Level 2 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and believe that every client benefits from a treatment plan that incorporates various therapeutic approaches.

​I understand how hard it is to practice “tough love” and to let your loved one struggle with their addiction. As your therapist, I intend to support you as you learn to prioritize yourself, recognize and value your emotions, and make fulfilling decisions that leave you feeling empowered and balanced.

Special populations

Couples where addiction is involved