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About

At first, you thought it would get better. You figured once the baby slept through the night, once work calmed down, once life settled—things would fix themselves.

But instead, you feel further apart than ever. Your partner checks out, lost in their phone, their games, or their excuses. You’re carrying the weight of everything—housework, kids, responsibilities—while they do the bare minimum.

And when you try to talk about it? It turns into defensiveness, half-hearted effort, or another broken promise.

And so, the distance grows. You’re not just tired—you’re lonely. And if nothing changes, you’re scared you won’t want to keep trying anymore.

This isn’t what just happens in relationships. This is a pattern—and patterns can change.

I help couples break out of resentment and miscommunication—so you’re not nagging, not begging, but actually creating a partnership where both of you show up.

If you’re ready to stop feeling like roommates and start feeling like a team again, let’s talk.

Special populations

ADHD