Gottman Referral Network

About

I'm Nicole Trister, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker NY, NJ, and CT, helping couples and individuals move through the places where they feel stuck. I work primarily with couples using the Gottman Method — a research-based approach to strengthening friendship, managing conflict, and rebuilding trust and connection — and I've completed Level 1 / Level 2 training in the method.

My approach is collaborative and unhurried. I'm not here to hand couples a rulebook, but to help them understand their own patterns, soften the cycles that keep them apart, and reconnect with what drew them together in the first place. Whether you're navigating conflict, recovering from a betrayal, or simply wanting to feel like partners again, therapy can be a space to slow down and listen — to each other, and to yourselves.
I offer in person sessions in New York City/ telehealth across NY, NJ, and CT. Reach out anytime at therapy@nicoletrister.com.

Special populations

Anxiety-related disorders, dual diagnosis